Overcoming Challenges: The Benefits of Sexual Wellbeing
It takes a lot of courage to acknowledge that you’re feeling vulnerable and sensitive around issues with your sexuality or sexual relationship. I want you to know that it is ok to be you. You’re not alone in this, and many people experience challenges when it comes to their sexual health and well-being. It’s normal to have questions and concerns, and it’s okay to ask for help.
You may be feeling confused, stressed, frustrated, anxious, or even ashamed of what’s going on for you right now. You might be struggling with intimacy, experiencing low or high libido, or feeling like your sexual experiences just aren’t what you want them to be or may not match your partners. You may wonder if your sex life, ideas, preferences, or limitations are typical. Whatever it is, I want you to know that you’re in a safe space here, and I’m here to help you work through it.
Are you not sure if sex therapy is right for you? Take a look at these statements:
- I’m not happy with my sex life
- Sex is causing tension, anxiety, or problems in my relationship
- I feel like my partner doesn’t understand my sexual needs, wants, or fantasies
- I feel unhappy, anxious, or ashamed about my sex life
- My sex life is negatively affecting other areas of my life, like work or mental health
- I have trouble with sexual desire, arousal, or orgasm
- I have issues with erectile dysfunction, pain during sex, or low libido
- I experienced physical, emotional, or sexual abuse that might affect my current sex life
- My partner and I want to explore alternative lifestyles (non-monogamous relationship, kink, etc.)
If any of these sound like you, it’s a good idea to book a session with me. You’re in the right place. I can help you to build confidence and learn new communication skills.
Some of the things I can help with include:
- changes in sexual and relationship dynamics
- diminishing sexual attraction in a long-term relationship
- problems getting or maintaining an erection
- premature or delayed ejaculation
- difficulties reaching orgasm
- distressing sexual thoughts
- differences in libido or the type of sex you both want
- sex, pornography, masturbation addictions
- love/emotional addiction/codependency
- pain during sex
- changes in desire or response to sexual stimulation
- sexual issues during menopause
- unwanted fetishes or fantasies
- sexuality/gender confusion
- challenges in ethical non-monogamous relationships
Here are some of the common stressors that can trigger or worsen sexual problems:
- Anxiety
- Aging, menopause, or perimenopause
- Changes in sexual partners
- Childbirth and child-rearing
- Depression
- Divorce
- First sexual experience
- Negative or shameful feelings about sex
- Trauma, sex abuse
- Lack of education or information about healthy sexual practices
- Long-term marriage or cohabitation
Sexual problems are actually quite common, but they often don’t get the attention they deserve. This is often because changes in life and stress cause them.
Empowering Your Sexual Health: Even Small Changes Can Have Big Impact!
I know that talking about your issues can be uncomfortable and painful, but I want you to know that seeking help from a sex therapist is a positive step toward taking control of your sexual health and happiness.
My goal is to provide you with a warm and supportive environment, where we can work together to identify the root causes of your concerns and develop a personalized treatment plan that meets your unique needs. I will give you some practical tools and strategies which may significantly improve your life and relationship.
Let’s work together to get you feeling confident and comfortable in your own skin, and to help you achieve the fulfilling sex life and intimacy that you deserve. So don’t hesitate to email or call me today!
“Intimacy is about truth. When you realize you can tell someone your truth, when you can show yourself to them, when you stand in front of them bare and their response is ‘you’re safe with me’ – that’s intimacy.” – Taylor Jenkins Reid
“Sexuality is a gift from the Divine, a sacred energy that opens us to love, passion, and creativity.” – Anodea Judith